To Be or Not To Be

BY ASIANDYNA November 25, 2008 | 02:44PM

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While the internet has made the world smaller and simpler than before, it has also made Internet users’ imaginations more boundless and more complex. Identities can easily be created to attain whatever purpose people have in cyberspace. When a person interacts with a total stranger in the web and is asked about his/her own character, there are two things he/she can do: Lie or tell the truth.

I receive many emails and YM pop-ins on a daily basis.  Many times I am asked questions concerning specific details about my personal life.  I have always felt that every question I get deserves an answer.  However, I have made a decision to remain anonymous in cyberspace.  At the same time, I cannot bring myself to fabricate replies.

It is so tempting for me to say that I am actually Marilyn Monroe, that my death was faked, and that I volunteered to be cryogenically frozen.  Now, I am out of the freezer and I look exactly the same as I was in 1962. But what good will this do?  Many people take time out to regularly look at my submissions and attempt to get to know me.  The least I can do in return is to give them an idea of who I really am.

What do I do when faced with this predicament?  I compromise.  I always tell the truth, but I speak in general terms – no specifics, please. I also decline questions that require me to reveal details about my identity.

I actually can talk about anything under the sun.  However, I will never be caught revealing my real name, my phone number, my home address, my workplace, my relatives, my friends or any other information that I feel will give my true self away.  Obviously, I will never entertain requests for web cams, phone calls, voice chats, and eyeballs.

I find it funny that most people get stumped after learning what my restrictions are.  More often than not, they get frustrated and struggle to think of what to ask or say to me.  Some people get mad, call me a snob, a fake or think that I am not interested in communicating.  Come on, peeps, there is no reason to go nuts.  There are actually people (like me) who choose to be secretive.  If you’re into revealing secrets on the web, or ASLs are important to you, then I am the wrong person to talk to.  No matter how hard you try, you will not be able to squeeze such information out of me.  It is all about respecting the other person’s online preferences.  Besides, there are so many topics to talk about aside from details concerning my identity.  The world does not revolve around my personal life.

Everybody is welcome to email me or pop in my YM whenever I am online.  As some of you already know, you will always get a reply.  However, keep in mind that there are things I do not wish to divulge – any other topic is fair game.

Let the truth be known that everything about Asian Dyna in cyberworld is real.  All that I write and talk about are who I really am in the real world.   Although there are limitations in the subjects I talk about, whatever I say is genuine and never invented.  The only thing made up about Asian Dyna is her name.

 
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9 Responses to “To Be or Not To Be”

  1. repappip Says:

    i think you should stop faking your belly with those obvious photoshop elementary knowhow and reveal the true form of your body. nobody know’s who you are anyway.

  2. repappip Says:

    reality is what you are saying. well, how real are you?… geez. gimme a break.

  3. smuggler Says:

    asus!

  4. skinhead Says:

    crap!… go and hide inside ur mother’s skirt if u dont want to
    reveal the real you!

  5. delta one Says:

    well you all have the right to be mystrious you leave it that way

  6. atrociouslyyours... Says:

    this is a blog after all people. she’s more than entitled to her say about a lot of things(although i’m not defending her or anything). all i’m saying is that WE ARE ALL ENTITLED TO THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND TO THE FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION(or lack thereof). and to you madame dyan(and i hope you do take the time to read this one), “All that I write and talk about are who I really am in the real world.” how “real” is it?” mind giving me, or rather us, the details of what you perceive as “real?” inquiring minds want to know…

  7. atrociouslyyours... Says:

    i misspelled her name “dyan” instead of “dyna.” sorry. my mistake. hehehehehe…

  8. MakatiByDay Says:

    Sorry but I have to agree with repapip. Before I used to enjoy this
    little diversion of yours but it had become a bit tedious as of late.
    It’s ok and all to show the cyberworld your body but I too have been
    put off time and again by the photoshopping. Yes you do this for
    your enjoyment but if it’s not too much to ask then please feel
    free to show your true body with all it’s imperfections.

  9. wala_parin2000 Says:

    let’s learn to how to accept if people won’t tell who really they are,
    lets just enjoy the blessing that dyna is sharing to us,
    there’s no reason for her to reveal her identity,
    there’s no reason for her to hide in her mother’s skirt, in the
    first place she won’t fit anymore, she’s a big girl now,
    i don’t believe that she uses adobe photoshop just to enhance
    the picture of her, she got a great figure… lets just enjoy
    her picture…

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