At this point, your female partner has given you the go signal to take nude pictures of herself and post them in the ‘net.  Congratulations!  Good, job; give yourself a pat on the back.  But. If you think that the hard part is over, you are definitely wrong.  What lies ahead is far more difficult.

Lesson # 2: Do not be an idiot.

Before the actual event, make sure that you have had lengthy conversations on how to go about things: where and how the photos will be taken, what poses, limitations, what to show and not show, etc.  It is very important that the model will call all the shots and that she has final say.  Do not be an idiot by playing the dictator.

The best time to take photos of your girl is when she is at her friskiest.  If you have no clue when she is at this state, you might want to get to know her more before plunging into this endeavor.  It is important to think of stimulating ways to get her into the activity. Make sure you put her in the moment by setting the mood.  Be creative.  Go with soft lighting, play some sensual music, watch her favorite porn movie, put on sexy scents to help her loosen up.  You might even want to join in and play around with her before stepping back behind the camera.  Do not be an idiot by being unprepared.

At the point when she is nude and ready, slap yourself if you still cannot believe your good fortune.  You have to be thinking straight.  You have to start with sensual shots.  Should your johnson be dying to pose with her for raunchier photos, halt the urge!  This is a guaranteed turn off.  You cannot think porno during your first photo session.  Remember, your woman is not a Triple-X film star (unless she is one, of course, and if that’s the case, you don’t need to read this entry).  Reserve that for later when you guys are more “seasoned”.  Do not be an idiot by being sleazy.

A woman who will be doing this for the first time will always feel nervous, shy, and self-conscious.  It is important to be generous with words of encouragement and assurance.  Being respectful and loving will make her more relaxed.  Positive reinforcements will steer her to be more sensual.  Do not be an idiot by not showing your appreciation.

You cannot screw this up.  It is your responsibility to make sure that this will be an enjoyable experience she would want to repeat.  Make this event all about her – a celebration of how beautiful she is.  Who knows?  It might not be about the camera and pictures anymore.  You guys might end up having great sex.  In which case, everybody wins.