A strange thing happened to me while I was at the mall during the last holiday season. As I was walking towards the escalator, I saw this man from a distance. He was wearing a shiny, dark blue football shirt. His jogging pants, with buttons on the side, were also dark blue. He wore rubber shoes with dark blue accents, too. He certainly seemed like a staunch advocate of all that is dark blue – but that was not the reason why I noticed him. He caught my attention because he looked oddly familiar. Read the rest of this entry »

Despite my busy work schedule, I take time out to read and reply to every email I receive.  Occasionally, I go online and chat with whoever pops in my screen.  I have always felt that responding is the least I can do to those who make the effort to look at my pics, read my blog entries, and send me notes.

I must admit that I have had amusing exchanges with some of you.  However, there are others who come up with topics that are actually not in my comfort zone.  I understand that this is all out of ignorance.  But it is happening too often that I need to put my foot down.

Although initially I felt that these issues were simply insignificant discomforts, they have escalated to the level of internet pet peeves.  So it is best that we sit down and discuss this matter before it intensifies into something even more severe.  Besides, there is a Rants category in my blog section so I might as well put that to good use.

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You’ve finally completed your first nude photo session with your lady.  Because you played your cards right, your woman loosened up and posed liked a pro. Way to go!  I’m sure it was an exciting and rewarding experience for both of you.  The question now is: How will the resulting pics be used?

When it comes to a project as sensitive as this one, dialogue is critical.  Both of you have to take time out to talk about what to do with the pictures.  Ultimately, your model (a.k.a. “The Boss”) will make the final decision.  Whatever that decision is, it has to be respected.

There are only two choices on what to do with your collection of nude photos.  You can keep them private or you can share them with the rest of the world.  Don’t be shocked if she considers this naughty little activity something she wants to keep just between the two of you. Those precious pics can still be put to good use: they’re excellent material for foreplay, perfect visual aids when you’re not getting any, to keep you company when you miss her badly. Read the rest of this entry »

You have a camera in your hands.  Your female partner is nude, ready and willing to pose for you.  This is the moment of truth.  Not to put any pressures on you, Mr. Budding Artiste, but this has to be perfect.  If you mess up at this point, consider this your last photo session.

Lesson # 3: Less is more. More is more.

Although you already know that your woman is beautiful, she will always have insecurities about certain parts of her body.  Take your model’s concerns seriously.  Work around all her fears and anxieties by remembering that less is more.  There are many ways to pose nude without exposing body parts that your woman may be shy about. Read the rest of this entry »