How to Take Nude Photos of Your Girl: Lesson # 4

BY ASIANDYNA January 15, 2009 | 11:20AM

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You’ve finally completed your first nude photo session with your lady.  Because you played your cards right, your woman loosened up and posed liked a pro. Way to go!  I’m sure it was an exciting and rewarding experience for both of you.  The question now is: How will the resulting pics be used?

When it comes to a project as sensitive as this one, dialogue is critical.  Both of you have to take time out to talk about what to do with the pictures.  Ultimately, your model (a.k.a. “The Boss”) will make the final decision.  Whatever that decision is, it has to be respected.

There are only two choices on what to do with your collection of nude photos.  You can keep them private or you can share them with the rest of the world.  Don’t be shocked if she considers this naughty little activity something she wants to keep just between the two of you. Those precious pics can still be put to good use: they’re excellent material for foreplay, perfect visual aids when you’re not getting any, to keep you company when you miss her badly.

If she chooses to share her photos, congratulations! However, posting her nude photos in the internet is definitely another ballgame.  Let’s face it - there will always be negative comments because vicious lowlifes who find pleasure in bashing other people exist. And you cannot please everybody.  These are the facts of life or, to be more specific, facts of posting pics in the net.  The tricky part is that the inevitable negative comments may make or break her interest in internet nude modeling.

Because hurtful criticisms are unavoidable, pampering her with words of encouragement will always be a big help to overcome bashers.  Aside from this, there are ways of minimizing damaging remarks.  How? Make your photos look professional – even if you are just a hobbyist.  This brings us to my fourth and final lesson.

Lesson # 4: Make your photos look respectable.

Although I know this is a hedonistic project, it is still important to make sure that the pics are done in good taste.  The idea is to eliminate situations and elements from your photos that will invite nasty criticisms.

Never take shots of undesirable body parts like bulges, flabby flesh or unwanted fats.  Bashers love to pick on these.  Find good angles, use clever cover ups, or take close shots of her sexy body parts like the small of her back, one of her butt cheeks, lips, legs, feet, etc.

Don’t just keep an eye on your girl, keep an eye on the set too.  Put equal importance to the background.  It is such a distraction and a complete turn off to see a sexy girl posing in a messy room with dirty laundry and all.  Make sure the location is in good order before.  Also, avoid taking photos in motels or sleazy joints.  If you cannot help it, make sure it will not look like one in the final output.  You wouldn’t want your sweet lady reading the words “escort”, “whore” and “How much for her services?” in the comment board.

When posting photos in the net, always remember that photo editing is the truth.  It is a very common practice; even professionals do this.  It will hide stretch marks, blemishes, and the like, and make your girl look hot.

Photo editing is also a good way to make sure that the world will not be able to recognize your model.  Censor her birth marks, moles, scars, familiar elements in the background or any other aspect that will give her away.  In my case, I do a lot of photoshopping to conceal several tattoos all over my body.

Of course, there are limits to photo editing.  Avoid trashy effects like turning her cup size from an A to a D or cropping her head and pasting it on someone else’s body.  It is simply despicable and tasteless.

Always keep in mind that if you want your woman to be respected, make sure her pictures are respectable.  Before you actually post her photo, take a long hard look.  Pay attention not only to the sexy woman in the foreground but to every single detail in the pic.  I know you think she is awesome, but what would the viewers think?  Obviously, you have a deep understanding of your woman’s beauty – both physically and from within her.  However, viewers will only judge her superficially – primarily based on what the photo show.  It is best to temporarily void yourself of all fond attachments to your partner and put yourself in the viewers’ shoes.

A final word of advice:  Although your woman trusted you by allowing you to photograph her nude, she will still have doubts.  Show your sincerity by valiantly surrendering to her the camera’s memory card and all raw files.  She will most certainly notice this sweet and selfless deed.  More importantly, your chances of having more photo sessions in the future will be way up the charts.

Always remember that your model is the woman you love.  She is not a porn star.  If you are respectful and loving, this experiment might end up being a pleasurable hobby for the both of you.

Hope my tips will work to your favor. Good luck!

 
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