Why I go to PSPs
July 18, 2008 | 04:08PMOne reader commented that I must be an ugly man because I can’t charm a woman. Another tried to lend his pseudo-intellectualism by saying that I must be a jerk because I pay P5,000 for something I can get for free. Be that as it may, it still underscores the fact that I need sex without having to go through the effort of seducing a woman. The reality is I go to PSPs for the simple reason that I need to get laid with as little complications as possible.
I wonder what is the financial comparison between charming a woman and paying a PSP to have sex with you. Charming a woman involves at least a drink plus several hours of conversation. Well, at least for me it will take several hours; I haven’t met anyone who can get a girl to go to bed with him in 30 minutes or less. My success in one-try pickups is dismally low, which means I have to call or SMS the girl a number of times. When I look back at my attempts, the sex typically happens after the third “date,” with each “date” consisting of a minimum of three bottles of beer between the both of us, sometimes six bottles of beer, plus the usual pica-pica. Then, when I am successful, it usually happens in the wee hours of the morning, like 2 am or 3 am, and I worry if I won’t be able to bring her to her doorstep, which means that there is the drive to her house. I stay in the Makati area and the worst situation that I had encountered was that I had to bring home a girl all the way to Bulacan.
Then there is the emotional baggage. Some women do get enamored and they begin calling you. Sometimes they call in most inopportune times. Somehow, the experience of swapping bodily fluids seem to make some women believe that they are beholden to you. Or that you are now beholden to them.
One reader gave one of the, if not the best reason on why I go to PSPs. I spend money not to be with them, but to make sure they leave after the deed is done.
well said dude specially the last paragraph.
gud 1 ser, i totally agree & we actually share the same reason, to get the girl to bed without any hassle or complications
yun ba yung bisaya?… hehehe… yun pala ibig sabihin nun…
malaki na kasi yung 5k sa kanila… sahod na rin halos sa dalawang linggo nung ibang tao… so di natin masisisi kung me mainggit…
i like the “to make sure they leave after the deed is done” part… so true…
yung iba kasi after you do the deed, madali ma-attach sa yo… yung iba me bf, papatol sa yo tapos makikipag-break sa bf nila para sa yo… hassles… eh kung sex lang habol mo then PSP’s and MP’s are the way to go… after the deed with someone, iba naman…
kahit naman nakakakuha ka nang libre, mas masarap me variety…
True. Guys, come on, you know exactly what the B man means!
I agree on what you said BU-BU, If you got the money why f*ck the same chick everytime?? plus the commitment! BU-BU knows what i meant??
this is true…sometimes if you have fuck buddies, yung emotion ng girl, nagiging totohanan na…and yun ang nakakatakot…
Tama ka. As a man, you just want to release the urge, nothing more. That’s the point of contention between men and women.
For me.. there’s a different sexual feeling when you go out and contact someone or pay someone for sex.. it’s more like an animalistic feeling.. it’s very sexual and erotic..
Para saken lang yan. ewan ko lang sa inyo..
pu** tsong lupit mo.,i dont usually do this kaso,i was amaze…sa kakaunting salita tumatama.,tnx
so true, i just realized it when i read your blog. i went back to pinas for a vacation, and at the same time my classm8 from college who is working in japan as a “talent”(japayuki) went back to pinas also. it’s been 4 years since we last saw each other. i hooked up with her and became intimate with the understanding that there won’t be any commitment due to the long distance rel. but now she’s fallen inlove with me and saying i love u all the time!!!
Ok lang talaga kung we have to release the urge thru PSPs kaya nga lang sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, especially kaming mga low earners, hiring one is least of my priorities
Dear Buwayahman,
I assume that you’re a man?…hopefully…
Well anyway, this comment is not about your article. I have a unique problem that I would like to ask your advise.
There’s this really super nice guy that I would like to have a long term relationship with. The thing is, we already have a mutual understanding but i can’t move on to the next level because of my problem.
To make the long story short, I am not sexually/physically attracted to him.
I have tried time and again to do physical stuff with him like hold hand and kiss but still there’s no spark.
What can I do to develop this? This guy offers me everything that I would need in a companion and my kids like him very much.
Please help me…
i do that often too bro.. sa sexy; sa tall; sa pandak;sa kulot; sa may hitsura, sa medyo siryoso ang hitsura, sa may-edad; sa may asawa; sa may syota…
ingit lang mga yan ala kc cla pang-bayad…
pinaka d best pa rin ung magbayad na lng para walng gulo!sarap lang..if your not earning enuf,diskarte mo na un..